What is your major?
English, with an Economics minor.
Why did you choose
English and Economics?
I chose English because I've always like reading and
writing, so I figured I'd make a major out of it. As far as Economics, I hope to someday get
into business, so I figured I'd get some sort of business sense through the
Economics minor.
Are there any
particular authors or genres that you enjoy?
I've always been a big fan of Ernest Hemingway. He's one of my favorites. Sometimes he can get a little dense. I took a whole class on him, and I really
enjoyed it.
What about him?
Just his style of writing.
He's really descriptive, and he really paints a vivid picture when you
read his works.
Is there a particular
Hemingway work that really got your attention?
"Old Men and the Sea."
What one would you
say is your favorite now?
I still love "Old Men in the Sea." It's a classic for sure. "A Farwell to Arms" is good as well.
Do you enjoy creative
writing?
I do. Unfortunately,
here I really haven't gotten to do much creative writing because the class is
super-hard to get into, and it's typically during practice time. But back in high school, I used to do a lot
of creative writing. I took some writing
courses, wrote for some little publications every now and then, and potentially
might continue it on later. But as of
the past couple years, I haven't really gotten to do it much.
What style would you
write?
Short stories.
Why did you decide to
attend the College of William & Mary?
I chose to attend William & Mary obviously because it's
a great school and to play great football.
Being from Richmond, it's in close proximately to home, so anytime I
need a home-cooked meal, I can drive 45 minutes down the road and see my mother
and my little brothers and get a nice meal and some laundry done. I fell in love with it as a young kid, so it's
definitely the right choice.
What other schools
were you looking at?
I was looking at JMU, U of R, and the Naval Academy, along with
William & Mary for football, and then if I wasn't going to pursue football,
I was looking at Notre Dame and UVA.
So far, what has been
your most memorable moment as a William and Mary football player?
Probably last season playing U of R. I got my first start. We crushed them-it was 45 to 3-which always
feels good. And then, it was actually
the first game that my dad was actually able to come to because since he covers
U of R, he's always traveling with them.
So he actually got to travel to the game here and watch me get my first
start, so it was exciting.
Is your dad a
journalist?
Yes, he's a sports journalist for the Richmond
Times-Dispatch
Would you say that
your dad's job has helped you know more about the local programs?
Definitely. He kind of
gave me the inside scoop as far as coming in-what kind of offense and defenses
they've run, how the coaching staff is, and how players enjoy it. I got an inside look, and plus, as a little
kid, I came to every single one of these schools just like following him to
games and stuff, so I kind of had exposure from a young age.
Were you born and
raised in Richmond?
I was raised in Richmond.
As far as where I was born, I couldn't tell you. I was actually adopted. I actually have six younger brothers and five
of us were adopted, so I really don't know where I was born. But I was raised in Richmond.
Does that make for an
interesting dichotomy at home?
Definitely. If you
saw my family, you wouldn't be able to put us together. Both my parents are white, and I'm obviously
black. I have three black brothers and two
white brothers. So when I'm like, "This
is my brother," who's 6"4' and white, people are like, "He's not your brother;
I mean he's not your brother like your 'brother-brother.'" And I'm like, "No, he's actually my brother."
What part of
Richmond?
Henrico County, west end.
What ages are your
brothers?
I've got my brother who just turned 21. He went to The Apprentice School down in the
Newport News. He wrestled down there for
one year, and in that year, they actually won the national championship for
NAIA. The next youngest is 18. He's just graduated high school. He's going to play basketball at Washington
& Lee. The next is 15. He's about to be a sophomore in high school
at Douglas Freeman. Big cross-country
runner and wrestler. The next is 12 I
guess, going into 6th grade.
He's a big diver; does like Junior Olympic diving. And then the youngest is going into 3rd
grade.
What is the most
common trait of the O'Conner family?
The most common trait is athletics. Everybody plays a sport, and the cool thing
about my family is no one plays the same sport.
Obviously, I play football, and my brother, Ray, like I said, is a
wrestler. We've got Patrick playing
basketball, Sam is into cross-country, Joe dives, and it looks like the
youngest, Brandon, is probably going to be into soccer. It's a good thing, too, because my family is
super-competitive. If there was a
competition like who could hold their breath the longest and not die, we would
have it. I mean it's like who can finish
the dinner the fastest, who can brush their teeth the quickest. It's constant competition, so keeping us in
different sports is probably a good idea.
Do have any pregame
superstitions or rituals?
I guess you can call it a superstition...it's just something
weird that I do, but before the game, I go to the bathroom like a thousand
times. I don't know if it's a way of
getting nerves, but that's just what happens.
I'll go like 15 time while I'm changing and right before we go out. It's kind of gross, I know.
Who outside of
football has inspired you in any way?
If I had to say one person, it's probably my mother. She's crazy...to have six kids, to be the only
women in the house. She's also a first
grade teacher, so she's constantly dealing with kids at school. So just to have kids around you all the time,
and just to be the kind of person would adopt five kids, she's an incredible
woman. She's probably one of the
strongest people I know, and she still terrifies me. I'll never step out of line in front of
her. She strikes the fear of God into
me, so I would definitely have to say my mother.
What are your primary
interests other than football?
A lot. I love being
outdoors, obviously. Being an athlete, I
love to be active. I also like, like I
said, reading and writing. I play the
guitar on and off a little bit, kind of self-taught.
Do you have a guitar?
Yes and I tinker on it every now and then. I'll go like a month where I'll just play
constantly, and then I'll go a month where I don't even touch it. So I'm not super-dedicated. I wouldn't say I'm good by any means, but I
can hold a tune.
What would you
consider to be you're unique gift?
I can catch food if it happens to be thrown at me; I'll catch
it every time. I love going to the
Japanese steakhouse, and how they toss you the shrimp, people are always
dropping it. I never drop it. I catch it every time.
What was your
favorite summer job?
I have to say the one I did this summer, working at a sports
agency. It's something that I want to do
in the future. I've been doing a lot of
stuff like client representation and then marketing. This summer, I was working with Octagon,
which is one of the biggest agencies in the world. They have people from Michael Phelps to
Apollo Anton Ohno, so like a lot of big names.
Is that what you'd
consider your goal right now for a career?
Yeah, I'd like to get into some sort of either client
representation or marketing. The
representation side is kind of "skeezy."
It's a cutthroat business, so it's really tough to get into. If you don't have a lot of money starting off
or if you don't have like an inside track, it's hard to get into. But I really do enjoy marketing. It would be a lot easier on the mind because
you don't have to worry about people stealing clients, and it's not really
about the money, it's about just marketing clients well.
How do you plan to
use your major?
Being an English major kind of gives me a leg up on the
basic marketing major because I can read and write really effectively. A marketing major may know the best ways to
market to somebody, but they may not be able to express it through words or
pictures, and that's something that I can do pretty well. So that kind of gives a different spin, and
it's definitely somebody they're looking for.
What's the most
valuable lesson you thing you've learned in your two years of working inside
that field?
You really have got to be ready for anything, I'd probably
say. Especially in the client
representation, it's basically like organized babysitting. You do everything from the client's financials;
you pay all their bills. If they need a
hotel in Sacramento, you've got to call up hotels and get them a room. So you're really taking care of them. And they can call you at 3:00 in the morning
and be like, "Hey, I need $200 wired to my account because I have no more money
left on my credit card," and as their agent, you have to do it as best you can. It's constantly changing, constantly evolving,
and you never know what's going to happen next.
They can tweet ridiculous things, and you've got to deal with the
backlash of that. So it's a really
exciting business, and it's definitely been really cool.
So you have had
hands-on experience with social media going wrong with their clients?
Yeah, and one of the areas I'm working in is actually called
strategic initiatives, and they actually work on finding innovative ways to
market the clients through social media.
So like a Facebook, Twitter, now they're got Google+, MySpace, and all
that. It's kind of a new avenue that
hasn't really been explored for athlete marketing, so that's kind of the area
that I've been working in this summer, thinking of innovative ways to put our
athletes out there through those venues.
After finishing up
your college football career, where do you see yourself?
After I finish my football career, it's actually going to be
a quick transition because I'm actually planning on graduating in December, so
right after the season. Or hopefully the
season won't be done; hopefully we're going until January. I'm hoping to get a job-trying to do this
sports marketing, sports client representation thing.
What is an obstacle
that you've had to overcome in your life?
My entire football experience has not come easily. Starting out, junior year in high school, I
had a pretty good year, so I started getting recruited by schools like William
& Mary, the Naval Academy, JMU and little bit from UVA. Then my senior year, third game of the
season, I fractured my ankle. I only
missed one game, though. I tried to play
the rest of the season on a fractured ankle.
It probably wasn't my best decision.
I was trying to help out the team, but I didn't have the greatest
season. I actually started out here as a
walk-on. My obstacle has been just kind of building myself up in the ranks and trying
to get a chance to play, and as the years have gone on, I've finally gotten a
chance to play, earned a half-scholarship, and this season, I'll be on
full-scholarship. So it's been a
journey, to say the least, but it's been great.
What was it like when
you found out that you were going to get a little money or a full scholarship?
Oh it was the greatest feeling in the world. Especially the first meeting-I was probably
more excited when I got the half-scholarship than when I was put on
full-scholarship because in the back of my mind, I had always had the thought
that I have one brother already going to school. My brother, Patrick, was kind of set on going
to like Washington & Lee, Hampden-Sydney, and those schools are not
cheap. I wanted to help ease the
financial burden to my parents, especially having six kids. Just finding out that I was finally going to
get some sort of support and that I was kind of finally getting acknowledgement
and finally had a chance to prove myself felt so good.
What year was that?
I think it was my redshirt junior year.
You've mostly been a
defensive back, mostly a safety?
I've played in the defensive backfield. I've been strong and free [safety], and then
when we bring our three-safety package in, I've also played nickel a little bit
and moved down to corner every now and then.
So I've kind of bounced around everywhere on the defensive backfield and
played a good number of special teams, as well.
A strength of your
game has already been, would say consistency?
Definitely, I think that's probably my biggest asset. You know what you're going to get out of
me. I do my job to best of my
ability. I'll make big play here or
there, but something good that I don't do is I don't really have any major
mistakes, as far as like the ball getting thrown over my head. I think I'm pretty fundamentally sound.
What is the last
thing you built from scratch?
Actually my dad decided to rebuild our deck this summer. I come walking in the house from work, and my
dad's out back knocking the deck down.
He's like, "Oh, perfect timing, you can help me rebuild this deck." So we actually rebuilt our entire deck in two
days
What is something
that you've had in your room since you were a child, and why is it sentimental
to you?
I've always in some manor or another had just picture of my
family because family is one of the most important things to me. I've always had some sort of family memento
picture thing hanging around.
Do you do any
community service work?
I do. I've worked
with Big Brothers Big Sisters here in Williamsburg and did that for a year or a
year and a half, and then I kind of had decided that I was going to take a
little break from it just because I was getting caught up in schoolwork. But I had a local elementary school teacher
actually call me and ask if I could come in and hang out with a special kid
that they had there, so I actually ended up getting back into it after like a
week of taking a break. So I've spent
the past year with him, which is really cool.
He's a fifth grader at a local elementary school.
What is something
that's on your bucket list?
I've always wanted to do a European tour, just kind of
travel all over Europe. After my senior
year in high school, I went to Ireland, and it was probably one of the most
amazing experiences I've ever had.
What is your favorite
food?
Definitely my favorite food would have to be spaghetti and
meatballs. I can't turn it down. If we could, my family would probably eat it
every day. My dad wants spaghetti and
meatballs for every meal.
What about in high
school?
In high school, I did a lot of different things. I was president of our Latin club. I was president in our Interact club, which
was more like a service club. We did
like community service kind of events. I
was in Beta club, vice president in National Honor Society. We had actually like a film club because I
buddy from my school was big into film, so we actually had a film club for a
couple years, so I was in that. I lot of
different things.
If you could play
another sport at William & Mary, what would it be and why?
I was big into soccer when I was younger, and as I was going
into middle school, I kind of had to choose soccer or football. I ended up choosing football, which turned
out to be a good decision. But I've
always loved soccer and I'd play again if I had the choice.
What animal would
best describe you and why?
Well my friends will make fun of me for this because I
always say a tiger because I can be intense sometimes, even though some of them
would say I'm a monkey because I'm so goofy.
What is your biggest
pet peeve?
I guess I'd have to say like people who talk to talk. That's always kind of annoyed me. I'm more a quiet guy; I kind of say things
when I need to say things. Just people
who talk constantly-it kind of just gets on my nerves sometimes. Not a lot of things bother me, really. Being in a house with five brothers, you kind
of get used to everything, so there's not too much that really gets on my
nerves these days.
What is something
you're afraid of?
Snakes. Snakes
terrify me. If I see a snake, even if
it's a little like one-foot garden snake, I will run and cry like a little
baby. I cannot stand snakes. Snakes are my biggest fear for sure.
Do you have a phrase
or philosophy that you live your live by?
"Do what you love; love what you do." If you don't like something, there's no point
in doing it. I've always kind of been
that sort of way.














